Your Tango interviewed Bo Alexis, a male erotic masseuse, and the stories he tells are actually pretty astounding. The phrase 'erotic massage' might make you think about creepy guys getting hand jobs in seedy buildings that barely qualify as massage parlors, but that couldn't be further from the truth. Apparently, women get "happy endings" massages too, and they get them a lot.
1. His clients were all between 19 and 49 years old. Alexis says the first time someone ever asked him to give her a "digital orgasm" was a 22-year-old college student. He thought she wanted sex, but she guided his hands down to her crotch at the end of the massage.
2. The women he massages are usually very upfront about asking for an orgasm. One of his clients had a boyfriend but she was very sexually frustrated. She got turned on during the massage and outright said she needed to masturbate. Alexis helped out. "She apologized and asked if she could masturbate," he says. "I offered to help and she quickly asked me to suck and gently bite her hard, brown nipples while she stroked her clitoris to an explosive orgasm.
3. He hates the term "happy ending." "It's a vulgar, cheap phrase suited for the sleazy 'massage parlor' that cater to men who are looking for a quickie in 15-, 30- and 60-minutes sessions," says Alexis. "And from what I understand of the female psyche, most women find the 'happy ending' model of an erotic engagement outside of a romantic relationship to be repellent." Alexis still gives what some people would call a "happy ending," but he sees it as a deep, erotic connection.
4. A decent number of his clients are married or in relationships. One of Alexis's clients is 39 and in a relationship, but sexually frustrated. Another said her husband is actually supportive of the massages and told other people that after her massages, the sex she and her husband have together is even better. "There's something about extended touch and caress that tends to release the most potent chemicals of the sexual centers of a woman who's in need of physical and emotional attention," says Alexis.
5. He never, ever has sex with his clients. Instead, he stimulates erogenous zones, which can sometimes bring them to orgasm.
You can read the full interview here, but it's pretty NSFW in an erotic-novel kind of way. Let's just say this guy really likes talking about nipples.
